Tuesday, October 22, 2013

I'm Giving Thanks for Being Human Every Morning: Finding Hope in Music.


"Be resistant
the negativity we keep it at a distance
call for backup and I'll give you some assistance
like a lifesaver deep in the ocean
stay afloat here upon the funky motion
rock and roll upon the waves of the season
hold your breath and your underwater breathin'"
Michael Franti



     Four years ago I went through one of the most difficult times in my life. My husband and I separated and then six months later proceeded with a divorce ending a 25 year relationship. At the same time my daughter, with whom I am very close, left for college in a far away state. I found myself rocked to my core and often felt dizzy and disoriented as I tried to move through my day, working at many different teaching jobs while continuing to make a home for my young teenage son. Friends fell away and new friends came. Support came in surprising ways and usually just when I needed it most. The one thing I could always count on was music. I had a playlist that literally kept me going during those very dark times.  I can remember what I was listening to at specific street corners, when I stopped and sobbed, and when I just sat and stared blankly while I was sung to by a musician who I felt had a direct line to my heart. To this day my iPod still counts those tracks as my most played, years later having listened to numerous other songs. These musicians came to feel like close personal friends and their music, balm for my soul.  I couldn’t have waded through the wreckage of my life without them. After reflecting on other important life experiences and noting that there is often a “soundtrack” to go along with it, I wondered if others had this experience. Does music buoy you and lift you up during dark times? Give you energy when you are feeling low? Do you intentionally listen to certain artists or tracks to invoke a certain state or mood?  I thought so. 

    
Dar Williams is a musician my daughter first exposed me to many years ago and is a folk musician who was shepherded by icon Joan Baez before going on to release many albums of her own. And while I love just about everything she has ever written,  I played her superior rendition of “Better Things” by Ray Davies of The Kinks about 20 times every day during my darkest periods.




[excerpt]
“Here’s hoping all the days ahead
Won’t be as bitter as the ones behind you.
Be an optimist instead,
And somehow happiness will find you.
Forget what happened yesterday,
I know that better things are on the way.”

    

Brandi Carlile, from Seattle, a full twenty years younger than me, understands the intricacies of the human heart and helped me keep on moving with her soulful voice reminiscent of Patsy Cline.






     But it was Michael Franti, with positivity, kindness and love sung with every word that kept me going more than any other artist. Michael is a 47 year old from the San Francisco Bay area of California, whose music includes elements from rap, funk, folk reggae and alternative pop. His song “Say Hey” made it to the top 20 charts in 2008. He is passionate about peace and justice for all people the world over and this shines through in every tune. His music also exudes caring towards his fellow humans and he encourages us to do the same.  He has traveled the world exploring peace and human connections from every possible angle and all of his experiences are distilled into his music. The song that first pulled me in many years ago was  “Stay Human.”



[excerpt]
“Starvation is the creation of the devil, a rebel
I'm bringin' food to the people like a widow
bringin' flowers to a grave in the middle
of the city isolation is a riddle
to be surrounded by a million other people
but to feel alone like a tree in a desert
dried up like the skin of a lizard
but full of colour like the spots of a leopard
drum and bass pull me in like a shepherd
scratch my itch like a needle on a record
full of life like a man gone to Mecca
sky high like an eagle up soaring
I speak low but I'm like a lion roaring
baritone like a Robeson recordin'
I'm givin' thanks for bein' human every morning

Be resistant
the negativity we keep it at a distance
call for backup and I'll give you some assistance
like a lifesaver deep in the ocean
stay afloat here upon the funky motion
rock and roll upon the waves of the season
hold your breath and your underwater breathin'

All the freaky people make the beauty of the world.”

And I will confess here that I am truly one of the freaky people.   

Another favorite is “See you in the Light”

“I have been travelling down this river, so many rocks pop up in my sight.
I've got to make some quick decisions, should I go left or should I go right.
I pray for guidance and protection, it keeps my boat watertight.
But, I know if I just keep on believing, every little thing is gonna be alright.”



Michael Franti and Spearhead
     Michael and his band Spearhead came to Tucson this past weekend for a live concert at The Rialto, a  favorite small funky theater downtown. It was the perfect place for hundreds of loyal fans to rock out, dance, jump and sing along. I was there just a few rows from the stage.  What’s so interesting about  Michael’s concerts is that it doesn’t matter where you are as he circles the room many times and connects with a hug, a handshake, eye contact as many of his fans as possible. 


Michael pulled up our Canadian friend Erin and his "brother from another mother" to dance.
 He pulls many fans to the stage to dance and sing along with him and I have witnessed at this concert and others his bringing up groups of children and families, older people, anyone, to share the spotlight. 
Michael and children, singing "Say Hey, I Love You"
    
He made a special trip to the balcony and my friend Barbara and her companion got long juicy hugs, but so did a lot of others.  It’s always interesting to me when going to one of his concerts that his fans range in age from one to 99.  When I ask “why are you a fan” the answer always can be boiled down to one word:  positivity.   


     I had my magical Michael Franti moment when my daughter Isabella and I got to meet him earlier in the day.   I had entered a local radio station contest to win “VIP” seats at a much smaller concert on the roof of a local establishment, whose purpose was to raise money for breast cancer awareness.  Not only did I win the tickets but we sat on the front row not more than 6 feet from Michael and his guitarist Jay Boogie.  So close!  Later, because of my brand new friend Holly’s kindness (we did not win the raffle to meet Michael) we did get to meet him and have a brief conversation and our photos taken.  I slipped him my business card and mentioned I would be writing about him in my blog. Are you reading Michael?  Thanks for being an enormous force for good in our world!

     The thing I want to share with my readers, is that as wonderful as Michael’s message is, it is also incredible to me that so many people are responsive to hope, optimism, positivity, and goodness in such large numbers and with such unbounded joy. I am beginning to see this same response whether at a concert, on this blog, or in the street. Each one of us can make a positive difference for someone else.  It’s fabulous when one has amazing talent and uses it in wildly wonderful ways to bolster, serve, and love the world as my favorite musicians do. But is it not equally wonderful when we each in our own quiet ways serve each other, without hesitation or worry that it will be enough?

     One thing all three of these musicians have in common is a strong commitment to making the world a better place, not only through creating and sharing hope-filled and positive music but also through their individual efforts to contribute in the communities they travel through when presenting concerts. 

Brandi Carlile

Founded by Brandi Carlile in 2008, the mission of the Looking Out Foundation is to support, through music, humanitarian outreach efforts in local communities and beyond. The arts-based Foundation serves the chronically underserved through its ongoing philanthropic efforts and involvement with social issues. Brandi Carlile and her fans donate $1 from every concert ticket sold to The Looking Out Foundation, channeling hundreds of thousands of dollars and resources to organizations that support the arts, women, public health, the hungry and the homeless.  When Brandi was in Tucson August 2012 money was donated to Southern Arizona Center Against Sexual Assault (SACASA).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkxyT27xRH0
Youtube for "Have You Ever"

Dar Williams

Dar Williams does something unusual and essential.  Every summer she appears at children’s summer camps to perform a one-set outdoor concert and spend the next day planting pollinator-friendly gardens.  Bees and other pollinators are failing in many places throughout North America and this is a cause that Dar is personally taking action on. 

Michael Franti

About eight weeks ago Michael Franti and his partner Sara Agah, an emergency room nurse, began the Do It For The Love Foundation.  Do It For Love is a wish-granting organization gifting people who are living with advanced stages of life threatening illnesses, children living with severe issues, and veterans coming home from war, live concert experiences and meet-and-greets with their favorite artists.  This is not just for MF concerts but could be for: opera, country and western, metal, or any other type of music.  The foundation’s purpose is to bring a meaningful concert and meeting of the artist experience to persons and their families who desire it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehu3wy4WkHs   Music Video of "Say Hey ( I Love You)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gF0zCZMfIE    Video featuring recipient of the Do it For Love Foundation.  Amelie and her family meet Michael and then she sings "Somewhere over the Rainbow" to the crowd.  Recommended.


Felicia’s Top Played Tunes (as tracked by her iPod)
Gloria –Michael Franti and Spearhead
Stay Human-MF
Better Things- Dar Williams
Say Hey (I love you) MF
One Step Closer to You – MF
See you in the Light – MF
 The Story- Brandi Carlile
Anytime you Need Me – MF
Soulshine- MF
What do you Love More than Love-  DW
Shake It –MF
Have a Little Faith- MF
Hello Bonjour-MF
Is Love Enough – MF
Have you Ever- BC
The World’s Not Falling Apart- DW
Tolerance-MF
Love Invinceable-MF


With love and peace,

Namaste,

Felicia


6 comments:

  1. Good Blog article, Felicia! Music does play an important part in our lives as we relate to life, get through life............I am so happy that you got to meet someone that had an important impact in yours. Yes, there is still hope for this world yet. Peace, Love, Music.

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  2. Felicia, what's splendid blog. I am forwarding it to my dear friend who is going through a unbelievably horrid time. I think it will help her. She might even know who these musicians are. (I don't.)

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  3. Nice post Felicia. Music has always been critical in my life. I have never found another therapy like it. Growing up, I'd put on my headphones and escape from what ever nightmare was going on at home....I have noticed that hearing a particular song on the way to work can set the tone for my whole day...music is just powerful like that. and playing an instrument also brings a sense of joy that can't be mimicked by anything else. my favorite article so far MiL :) ~Ash

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  4. Felicia, this post was very moving. Music had long been rooted in my life as inspiration. As a young girl of 11, I watched a Barbra Streisand special (her third one) and was riveted to my father's lounger. I came away with a lifetime love, respect, and admiration for her. Next to my family, she had the biggest influence in my life. I believe that everyone needs heroes. People you aspire to emulate. 48 years later, I still admire her, but my heroes have changed. They are the real people I am fortunate to know, such as my daughter, my husband, and my Dad. Barbra had a very deep affect on my growing life, but as an adult, it's the people I can actually touch who I aspire to be like.
    Enjoyable post. It made me stop and think. Thanks.

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  5. Felicia, this post was very moving. Music had long been rooted in my life as inspiration. As a young girl of 11, I watched a Barbra Streisand special (her third one) and was riveted to my father's lounger. I came away with a lifetime love, respect, and admiration for her. Next to my family, she had the biggest influence in my life. I believe that everyone needs heroes. People you aspire to emulate. 48 years later, I still admire her, but my heroes have changed. They are the real people I am fortunate to know, such as my daughter, my husband, and my Dad. Barbra had a very deep affect on my growing life, but as an adult, it's the people I can actually touch who I aspire to be like.
    Enjoyable post. It made me stop and think. Thanks.

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  6. Thanks for sharing your story Lauren. I've always loved Barbra for many reasons! Your daughter is also one of my heroes, I'm beginning to think all of you are...

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